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Feb 25, 2004 22:06:46 GMT -5
Post by ZeroSaidSadly on Feb 25, 2004 22:06:46 GMT -5
i just say when it truly feels right, and right with the person. when you trust them, and hopefully love them. which could be anytime, 14, 16, 20, 30? hopefully not 30 though......
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Bullet
Ghost of Indecision
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Feb 26, 2004 5:54:58 GMT -5
Post by Bullet on Feb 26, 2004 5:54:58 GMT -5
Purity by Sophie Coming to a theatre near you. I never was the actress type. Tiff [babygirl]: Yes, I agree. Hopefully you had a chance to read my post back a while ago. It really annoys me when people say oh 14, yep, they are never right etc etc. Blah, I'm far too mature for my own good sometimes. I'm glad I don't regret my own, I just wish that at least the other person could have felt the same because then it would have meant a lot more. It doesn't matter to me anymore, I have met someone wonderful and I know they feel the same way for me, so it makes me very happy at this point in time. Tiff [ZSS]: Yes. I completely agree with you.
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Feb 28, 2004 12:17:30 GMT -5
Post by smiling eyes on Feb 28, 2004 12:17:30 GMT -5
when it feels right. cliche i know but i still think its true. i think i would do everything when it feels right. not just sex but sex is an obvious example. anyway, i was talking about this a few days ago. its not only a physical thing but its mental and emotional also. i think the most important thing is to consider what happens after. i have heard things about other people through friends and just picking stuff up about people my age and how as soon as they have sex together for the first time or lose their virginity then they seem to have sex constantly which kinda takes away the importance of it or how special it is. to some people losing their virginity is freedom to have sex whenever and with whoever. i don't mean once you have sex you should put it of for a while, i just mean you should consider how you feel cos been totally intimate with someone you feel you love would move you up to a level that you have never been with them before. i guess thats what sex is all about - showing how you feel.
wooo a really long post for the first time in so long. hurrah for me
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May 28, 2004 16:28:13 GMT -5
Post by Czarina on May 28, 2004 16:28:13 GMT -5
I've been thinking about this alot lately. I lost my virginaty at 16 and although it seemed right at the time I think I was too young, I really wish I'd waited. I honestly think one night stands are awful, I don't know why anyone finds them appealing, to go that far with someone you should really have a connection with them and be in a secure relationship.
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May 28, 2004 17:20:23 GMT -5
Post by JoRi on May 28, 2004 17:20:23 GMT -5
hmmm...yeah i still have mine...because i feel like my first time should be special and what not...that's just me. i'm going to try and wait...i don't think that there is anything wrong with people who don't i just think poeple should do what they feel is right...
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May 29, 2004 0:07:28 GMT -5
Post by BrightEyes05 on May 29, 2004 0:07:28 GMT -5
Hmm... *shrugs.. then throws down a smoke bomb to conceal the akward exit from a thread he doesnt belong in*
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May 29, 2004 11:48:38 GMT -5
Post by Czarina on May 29, 2004 11:48:38 GMT -5
hmmm...yeah i still have mine...because i feel like my first time should be special and what not...that's just me. i'm going to try and wait...i don't think that there is anything wrong with people who don't i just think poeple should do what they feel is right... I waited for quite a while for that same reason and actually think that's what ended some of my earlier relationships. I think it's highly commendable that you can wait, I didnt have that strong belief that you do.
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May 30, 2004 14:34:27 GMT -5
Post by JoRi on May 30, 2004 14:34:27 GMT -5
yeah, i just i dunno...the fact that i have a baby sister is strong birth control too...
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Jun 19, 2004 11:29:25 GMT -5
Post by Sofee on Jun 19, 2004 11:29:25 GMT -5
I've been thinking about this alot lately. I lost my virginaty at 16 and although it seemed right at the time I think I was too young, I really wish I'd waited. I honestly think one night stands are awful, I don't know why anyone finds them appealing, to go that far with someone you should really have a connection with them and be in a secure relationship. I feel actually, for me to lose mine at 14 was even younger. I should have waited yes, I guess I should have after not long after happening and so forth because some of the specialness was stolen away. I just want to have it be special instead of how it was. It still was almost, I don't regret it, but I just don't like how young I was if all I ever do is get slack for it. I don't even know what to think of myself anymore, I don't want sex to be something pointless, I don't want it to grow that way. Sometimes I feel when it's overused, it doesn't feel so good to me either. I don't like it when a male could demand to have sex all the time, or to want it at every single chance possible because that makes me feel uncomfortable. Sex is overrated anyway.
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Jun 19, 2004 16:22:07 GMT -5
Post by Dawn2Dusk on Jun 19, 2004 16:22:07 GMT -5
Uhhh I have No Clue About *Sex*, lol Im only 13 Uhhh I have No Clue About *Sex*, lol Im only 22
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Jun 19, 2004 16:33:44 GMT -5
Post by Josh on Jun 19, 2004 16:33:44 GMT -5
Sex is great, but you're right about it being overrated. I had a friend who stayed in a relationship with an absolute bitch, who treated him like shit, for over a year. When he finally came to his senses and dumped her, I asked him why he'd stuck with her for so long. "Because I was getting laid," was his response. Was the sex good, I asked him. "No, it was really lousy. She was awful in bed. But it was still sex man." So, he stayed in a terrible relationship with a terrible person because he was getting sex, lousy sex mind you, on a regular basis. This same friend is the one who was always bugging me to get a girlfriend or try to pick up drunk chicks at the bar because he thought I should be trying to get laid all the time. I tried to tell him that I really wasn't into hookups with random strangers, or settling for a shitty relationship just to get laid. He thought I was just stupid for that. So yeah, some people put way too much importance on sex.
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Jun 20, 2004 3:48:15 GMT -5
Post by Sofee on Jun 20, 2004 3:48:15 GMT -5
Uhhh I have No Clue About *Sex*, lol Im only 22 The older a person goes without sex, the more I have respect and admire them. Which in turn means I don't give much respect to myself, which I don't. To be honest, I don't think I'm really ever had much respect from anyone, but that is beside the point. Whether it's your choice, or not, the longer you can hold on the more stronger you are for not giving in to horrible temptation or persuasion. You at least save yourself for when you do actually have what's there to progress a relationship. Dan was saying a fantastic and true anology which I could agree on. I believe him when he says he's becoming Freud. He said how sex isn't important, the actual action itself. However, in a relationship it is important. It also answers questions such as, why do girls end up with pretty boys who are jerks? And, how come males sexual bahaviour, needs and wants are how they are. Which does actually make sence when explained more, I'm not as good for telling what I was talking to him about last night. Since I experienced sex I don't even see what's so good about it personally. I mean, yeah, the meaning of it all in a basis of a relationship but apart from that, people really shouldn't get so hung up about it. YOu can do many more worthwhile things together than just have sex all the time. The only nice things in a relationship are the kisses, the hugs, handholding and just going out for general fun and bounding time, talking till the early hours of the morning holding eachother. All the little things that can make you feel even better than what sex does.
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Jun 20, 2004 10:53:39 GMT -5
Post by Dawn2Dusk on Jun 20, 2004 10:53:39 GMT -5
The only nice things in a relationship are the kisses, the hugs, handholding and just going out for general fun and bounding time, talking till the early hours of the morning holding eachother. All the little things that can make you feel even better than what sex does. I 100 % agree on that one
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Jun 20, 2004 10:58:11 GMT -5
Post by Sofee on Jun 20, 2004 10:58:11 GMT -5
I 100 % agree on that one
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Jun 20, 2004 10:59:09 GMT -5
Post by Dawn2Dusk on Jun 20, 2004 10:59:09 GMT -5
The older a person goes without sex, the more I have respect and admire them. Which in turn means I don't give much respect to myself, which I don't. I think it should't be a matter to be embarassed or feel disrespected...if you took the decision to do it, and like you said earlier you dont regret it, that's ok, maybe you're not naive anymore about it, and next time you will think more your decision to wether do it or not, if you chose to do it i'm sure it will be even better than the 1st time!
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