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Jun 20, 2004 11:08:38 GMT -5
Post by Sofee on Jun 20, 2004 11:08:38 GMT -5
I think it should't be a matter to be embarassed or feel disrespected...if you took the decision to do it, and like you said earlier you dont regret it, that's ok, maybe you're not naive anymore about it, and next time you will think more your decision to wether do it or not, if you chose to do it i'm sure it will be even better than the 1st time! Well, maybe because I haven't had much of a good experience of sex either? I mean, all the sneaking around, fear of being caught. Because of my age my parents didn't agree, obviously. Not to mention how old the partner was. It doesn't make it any more easier, or acceptable. It probably put me off a lot because I just didn't want to deal with it that way as well. It's not that the sex was terrible at all, it's just I still didn't have the freedom, and I wish I could have felt more comfortable and to have it somewhere nicer than where it was. I would have liked it to have been more private than just where it was. It'll be easier as I get older, but personally, how ever my future goes, I really hope sex won't be a big issue or been seen as something important in the wrong way. I don't want it having to take over my life. As mentioned, the smaller things only make me happy. I could live without sex.
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Jun 20, 2004 11:13:36 GMT -5
Post by Dawn2Dusk on Jun 20, 2004 11:13:36 GMT -5
well youre right on that one. it wouldve been better if it happened in better circumstances, as for the small things i havent experienced them but i'm sure that the way to go
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Jun 20, 2004 11:15:40 GMT -5
Post by tsp gatmog on Jun 20, 2004 11:15:40 GMT -5
Hmm, the only thread to last over a year on the U-board just had to be about sex.
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Jun 20, 2004 11:19:35 GMT -5
Post by Sofee on Jun 20, 2004 11:19:35 GMT -5
well youre right on that one. it wouldve been better if it happened in better circumstances, as for the small things i havent experienced them but i'm sure that the way to go They'll get there one day. I'm always here to give out hugs and a kiss on the cheek anyway. I wish time would come for you sooner, you really do deserve real love with a lovely lady.
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Jun 20, 2004 15:50:39 GMT -5
Post by Josh on Jun 20, 2004 15:50:39 GMT -5
well youre right on that one. it wouldve been better if it happened in better circumstances, as for the small things i havent experienced them but i'm sure that the way to go I can sympathize with you for quite a lot of what you're going through. But eventually, it'll work out. I mean, I was thinking it'd never happen for myself, but it did.
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Jun 20, 2004 16:16:28 GMT -5
Post by Dawn2Dusk on Jun 20, 2004 16:16:28 GMT -5
I can sympathize with you for quite a lot of what you're going through. But eventually, it'll work out. I mean, I was thinking it'd never happen for myself, but it did. yeah i never lose hope
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Jun 20, 2004 16:17:23 GMT -5
Post by Dawn2Dusk on Jun 20, 2004 16:17:23 GMT -5
They'll get there one day. I'm always here to give out hugs and a kiss on the cheek anyway. I wish time would come for you sooner, you really do deserve real love with a lovely lady. hope it comes sooner too
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Jun 20, 2004 16:57:39 GMT -5
Post by Czarina on Jun 20, 2004 16:57:39 GMT -5
Just out of interest how many sexual partners would classify an 18 year old girl slutty in your opinion (directed to anyone).
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Jun 20, 2004 17:14:35 GMT -5
Post by Josh on Jun 20, 2004 17:14:35 GMT -5
One a day maybe. Definitely if it's two a day...
But I think it's so fucking stupid to call someone a slut. If people want to have sex, then great. I'm not so interested in sex with someone I don't love, but I can see why some people are. As long as you're happy with the number of people you've slept with, then that's what matters. It really doesn't affect anyone but yourself and the people you're sleeping with. If they're comfortable with it and you are, then you've got no worries.
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Jun 20, 2004 18:36:56 GMT -5
Post by BrightEyes05 on Jun 20, 2004 18:36:56 GMT -5
If you really want to know what it takes to be slutty, just look at Josh. Sure, he's not a girl, but he does have feminine qualities, and he is, after all, not just a slut, but a SUPER SLUT!11!
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Jun 20, 2004 23:35:47 GMT -5
Post by Monkey Bone on Jun 20, 2004 23:35:47 GMT -5
you know think about why do strip clubs do so well for guys anyway, we go there spend a hellatious amount of money go back to the hotel with a major case of the blue balls, but when the money is back in our hands we'll be right back in the same situation, and well its not just me, but hell they are fun and can you really say thats degrading to women, hell them girls chose that life and make damn good, when a girl can make 80 bucks in 20 minutes, that would average as 240 bucks an hour, hell thats a damn good job, if I was a woman I'd strip, If my dick was the right size hell I'd be one now, which if a girl ask to see it now I'd wip it out coz I have never been ashamed of it, But what I am trying to say is I think its an honest living, not for everyone, but who are you to look down on it, and what good do they do...If a guy is married to his wife been so for a long time, faithful and all, but during sex, isn't good anymore coz its kinda just boring, then if he'd spend one night in a club come home, he'd likely give her the best bang in years. same with girls, whats wrong with them going to a male strip club and seeing them guys, good way to get them ready for bed that night, I mean, I see no problem unless you burn all your money all the time there, I have only been to two, one of them is one of the best in the nation, Platinum Plus Memphis, TN and it had what we expected and a lot more, I went to the Hotel with a major case of the blue balls, but my girl is back at home waiting, I am not out looking to fuck, just have a good time, I see nothing wrong with that. So the pissy people that think its wrong and want to do away with them and novelty shops need to think of the importance of them in the first place, like whats it your business what someone does in the privacy of there own home. i just think a lot of it is stupid.
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Jun 21, 2004 12:12:53 GMT -5
Post by Josh on Jun 21, 2004 12:12:53 GMT -5
Strip clubs don't interest me really. But I totally agree with you when you say it's not degrading to those women. I never understood how adult women consensually working in a strip club, or posing in a pornographic magazine can be viewed as degrading. These women are comfortable enough in themselves that they can expose their bodies for all to see. Good for them.
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Jun 21, 2004 17:07:57 GMT -5
Post by Czarina on Jun 21, 2004 17:07:57 GMT -5
I don't find strip clubs degrading either, good for those who have to bodies to do it.
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Jun 21, 2004 17:17:48 GMT -5
Post by Czarina on Jun 21, 2004 17:17:48 GMT -5
One a day maybe. Definitely if it's two a day... But I think it's so fucking stupid to call someone a slut. If people want to have sex, then great. I'm not so interested in sex with someone I don't love, but I can see why some people are. As long as you're happy with the number of people you've slept with, then that's what matters. It really doesn't affect anyone but yourself and the people you're sleeping with. If they're comfortable with it and you are, then you've got no worries. Oh I am happy with it, still a nice little number and all but one I had been in a relationship with and really felt strongly for....thought it was love at the time
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Jun 21, 2004 17:22:02 GMT -5
Post by Josh on Jun 21, 2004 17:22:02 GMT -5
That's respectable. I think anyway. And my opinion is ultimately what counts to each and every one of you. It's ok to admit it.
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