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Post by JoRi on May 1, 2004 15:54:36 GMT -5
well...do we really have a one person set for us? a person who balances out and makes us whole? in life is there one soul mate and many loves...or one love and many soul mates? and...where the hell is mine? well... i shouldn't stress it, but i do believe that there is one person who's truely out there as your other half...however i don't believe that they are nessisarily the love of your life...they could be a best freind or worst enemy...whatever
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Post by Czarina on May 1, 2004 17:29:16 GMT -5
It's hard to imagine spending a lifetime with one person and for everything to be perfect and as it's meant to be, I used to feel that way about someone but I got hurt and now well I can't imagine ever feeling like that again.
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Post by JoRi on May 1, 2004 18:06:45 GMT -5
i'm sorry you were hurt...and i've never really believed that 'what doesn't kill us makes us stronger' so i don't know a positive for being hurt...oh, and i don't think you can spend you're whole life with THE ONE you've got to go thru others first...kinda like being on a mission  haha. one hell of a mission that is... |
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Post by Peeg on May 1, 2004 19:37:14 GMT -5
well...do we really have a one person set for us? a person who balances out and makes us whole? in life is there one soul mate and many loves...or one love and many soul mates? and...where the hell is mine? well... i shouldn't stress it, but i do believe that there is one person who's truely out there as your other half...however i don't believe that they are nessisarily the love of your life...they could be a best freind or worst enemy...whatever I'm sure there is someone out there who would be aboslutely perfect for you. But your not going to find them. I am sure though that there is someone that you are compatable with. So in that respect that person is your soulmate. |
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Post by Dawn2Dusk on May 1, 2004 21:01:42 GMT -5
A soulmate may exist now it may be thousands of miles away, u could walk by this person and never know, the possibilities of finding a soulmate are the same of getting strucked by a lightning i believe.
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Post by Peeg on May 2, 2004 0:07:32 GMT -5
A soulmate may exist now it may be thousands of miles away, u could walk by this person and never know, the possibilities of finding a soulmate are the same of getting strucked by a lightning i believe. I would say even less as bleek as that may sound. There are a little over 6 billion people on this earth. What are the chances that this person is lives close enough, speaks the same language as you, and is around the same age as you. But i do believe that although the person may not be "perfect" for you that God does have someone in mind that is good for you. |
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Post by Josh on May 2, 2004 0:27:32 GMT -5
I would say even less as bleek as that may sound. There are a little over 6 billion people on this earth. What are the chances that this person is lives close enough, speaks the same language as you, and is around the same age as you. But i do believe that although the person may not be "perfect" for you that God does have someone in mind that is good for you. God doesn't have a plan for us. It would go against free will.  |
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Post by vmfury on May 2, 2004 1:14:34 GMT -5
Well this thread is certainly full of optimists.
I absolutely believe in soulmates. There are 3 people in my life that I consider soulmates and each is a different type of connection. A soulmate is more than someone you're just "compatible" with and it is more than possible to find. Simply meshing well with a person doesn't mean they're the perfect match for you and it isn't limited to the opposite sex (IMO). Soulmates know and understand each other on an insanely deep level. Sometimes the bond is so intense that it's almost creepy. It's difficult to find a person who is that in tune with you but it's incredible when you do experience such a thing.
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Post by Um Jammer Lammy on May 2, 2004 5:13:15 GMT -5
I'm not sure if such things exist, or if people try to convince themselves into thinkin this or that person is their "soul mate" not because they are but because they want them to be because the concept is so grand. Movies seem to make people believe that it is supposed to happens a certain way. So people look for something thats not there, in any real case it'll be boring and less dramatic and if people don't acknoledge that they'll be watching movies like Serendipity and old Dawson Creek re-runs wondering when that will happen to them.
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Post by Sofee on May 2, 2004 12:50:57 GMT -5
I believe in soul mates. I'm more the kind of person who hates having to search and search. If I find people who I start talking to. If I don't feel anything in any connection at all I won't try to work any relationship around it. I won't just go up to any stranger and just start dating them a week later. It takes time. It takes a foundation of trust, faith, emotion. Both spiritual and physical connections between the pair. I'm going along with vmfury, it's not just compatibility. It's a lot more deeper than that. When you find someone and you find the scariest similarities, and so many things that seem unreal you know it's love. You have the most unexplainable feelings. I don't mean just any old feeling of being happy and feeling better than normal or anything that anyone can get alone. Much more than that. The strangest feeling you'll ever encounter. I can't really describe it but I've definitely felt it before. Which is odd for someone of my age, it's odd for a lot of people. Maybe I'm just lucky to find things sooner than people who take ages. It's a possibility.
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Post by BrightEyes05 on May 2, 2004 19:11:44 GMT -5
I'd have to say no... then again, I'm only sixteen, so who knows, right?
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Post by ZeroSaidSadly on May 4, 2004 21:19:16 GMT -5
soul mates= nice idea
i wish i got myself to believe i had a soul mate tho... that'd probably be alot more fun. alot nicer.
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Post by Josh on May 4, 2004 23:22:13 GMT -5
Soulmates never die.... ah, Placebo.
Anyways, I'm not sure if it's soulmates, but I do believe that you can form a very strong bond with another person. And sometimes that bond forms very quickly, and just seems so perfect from the start. It's somewhat of a magical feeling when it happens, I do know that much. I've tossed around the idea of it being a soulmate situation, and really, that's the best way I could think of to describe it. So yes, I guess I believe in soulmates.
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Post by JoRi on May 8, 2004 16:37:18 GMT -5
hmm...one true love and many soulmates...i think that's what i come to for my decision...
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Post by Stumbleine on Mar 11, 2005 21:40:16 GMT -5
No I don't believe in soul mates.. there can't be just 'one' person out there for you because everyone is compatible with everyone. What if the 'one' lived in a different country and died? I don't think anyone would find their soul mate out of like 6 billion people.
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if i were god i would give you your own little adam to have
haha. one hell of a mission that is...
